ah ...it's the classic story innit? take the hint bub - she's not interested. move on!
then the boy starts gettin' wide eye'd and says stuff like whatever happened to persistence and perseverance? the 2 great 'P' words which can only go towards proving to the girl that boy is serious. that boy is genuine. that boy will do whatever he can because he 'just that kinda guy'. boy will give the girl the old fashioned 'chase' like back in the 'day' when if a man said he wanted a woman (the days when integrity meant a 'damn' and it was worth keeping and more importantly people held such a virtue in high esteem compared to people 'talking' about it these days but not practicin') - it'd be like signing a binding contract. and the requirements of the contract entail that the man would be willing to do all that is appropriate and perhaps a little more if he really 'likes' the girl - to prove himself worthy. boy believes that girl is a gift that must be earned. boy is willing to earn her. boy is not in it just for a casual f**k. boy is no casanova but boy is real.
ah ... stupid boy. he doesn't think of what could happen when girl is just not interested. there's no fixing that. and there will be no remedy for his rejection either.
but boy doesn't care. all boy wants is just a chance. and boy believes that if all you want is a chance to see whether something 'could' happen. then you should be willing to accept the probability that nothing could happen. thus, boy will keep trying till boy gives up. the longer he tries - that time only mirrors how real his interest is towards girl. and if boy never gives up - that only mirrors the fact that he's one of those 'unlucky sonsofabitches that will never be with the 'one'.
ah - poor boy. lets hope he doesn't end up feeling like the picture below.
signing off - the commonjack.
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